I think for most parents, myself included, figuring out how to be the best possible parent, figuring out how to help our children become the best possible version of themselves that they can be ... is central to our existence as parents. In my mind, this purpose is an all-consuming obligation. The whole purpose of this blog is directed toward fulfilling this purpose. In this essay I offer thoughts on developing a constructive family culture. I use the word constructive to describe a family that adds value to their children. Not all families do this. In fact, many diminish their children either subtly or in crushing torrents. Family culture describes the rules, norms, values, customs, traditions, and leadership style of a family that guides and informs the way people behave on an individual basis and interact with each other. This essay is not prescriptive, an instruction on how to make a specific family culture. It is a thinking too...