Showing posts with label Whole Child. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Whole Child. Show all posts

The Purpose of Behavioral Programming


Our dedication is to the whole child.  Our interest extends to the child’s family, neighborhood, school, and community.  Each child’s well-being is contingent on the well-being of the extended network surrounding and supporting their growth.

Our interest in the whole child includes their well-rounded and well-balanced development.  We must attend to each area of need and support carefully weighted, balanced, and multi-dimensional growth: music, art, sports, friendship, family, hobbies and interests, academic achievement, ethical and spiritual well-being.  No one area can be allowed to consume our attention at the expense of another area.  We must remain flexible and responsive to the child’s needs. We must nurture each child’s strengths and carefully attend to their weaknesses.

Elements of Character, Development, and a Healthy Lifestyle: 


  • Honesty
  • Creative Well-being
  • Cooperation / Teamwork
  • Physical Well-being
  • Work
  • Emotional Well-being
  • Loyalty
  • Intellectual Well-being
  • Enthusiasm
  • Ethical Well-being
  • Determination
  • Spiritual Well-being
  • Curiosity / Inquisitiveness
  • Community Well-being 
  • Playfulness
  • Filial Well-being
  • Optimism
  • Social Well-being
  • Resourcefulness
  • Caring & Compassion

Growth is a dynamic process; a process leading toward resilience, a process leading toward a healthy and productive adult participant in society.  

Leadership initiates the process.  

Leadership is the beacon toward which the children grow. Leadership is the example or model we provide.  What does our model look like?  How do we nurture a carefully weighted and balanced lifestyle in our own lives and in the lives of the children we serve? 

How do we nurture resilience?  How do we nurture a sense of community in which growth and resilience will flourish?

The purpose of programming is to create a sense of community that will nurture, protect, and celebrate the children. 

I was seeing in a sacred manner the shape of all things in the Spirit and the shape of all shapes as they must live together like one being and I saw the sacred hoop of my people was one of many hoops that made one circle wide as daylight and as starlight. And in the center grew one mighty flowering tree to shelter all the children of one mother and one father and I saw that it was Holy.” 

~ Black Elk

Kenneth H. Little, MA 
603-726-1006

© 2009 Kenneth H. Little. All rights reserved.  

Leadership

Excerpted from Ken's Parenting Guide

Leadership

Parents are the leaders of the family. Parents lead children in growth and development toward adulthood. Parents lead by example.  Leadership is not power.  Leadership is wisdom.

Vision / Long Term Desired Outcome

In order to lead, parents need to have a sense of what their long-term desired outcome is. As a parent, what are you trying to accomplish in raising children? Having a good sense of the desired outcome will help you navigate through difficulties more effectively. Keep the big picture and the long-term plan in mind. Don't get lost in the small stuff, the immediate challenges.

Know Your Family's Value System

Keep your value system at the forefront of your parenting effort. Write it down. Talk with your children about your values. Parents instill values in their children gradually over time. Live according to your value system. Guide accordingly.

Keep the Whole Child in Mind

Often as parents we lose sight of the whole child and begin to focus too vigorously on the problems, concerns, and shortcomings. As parents, it's important to attend to the whole child, to develop children across the many years into well-rounded adults.

Focus on Constructive Feedback

Avoid using negative feedback and criticism. Keep the feedback loop corrective, constructive, positive and uplifting; pointing toward the long-term desired outcome. As parents we are constructing, building-up our children toward adulthood, not tearing them down.

Build Strength - Strengthen Weakness

Raise resilient children, strengthen and develop character and skills patiently, intentionally, and incrementally across the many years of child development. Help your children develop the strengths and skills necessary to cope effectively with the difficulties of life and to succeed despite obstacles. Do not avoid weaknesses - strengthen weaknesses through a planned, intentional, practice-to-mastery approach.
  
Strength is nurtured, not demanded.

Kenneth H. Little, MA / 135 Lee Brook Road / Thornton, NH 03285 / 603-726-1006 / Achieve-ES.com

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